BODY IMAGE BATTLE: CAN WE EVER WIN?


Something I really, truly struggle with is body image and I just can’t shake it. I want to be comfortable and love the skin I’m in, but it’s hard. I’m a HUGE advocate for body positivity and I will never let a friend/relative say a bad word about themselves. But, why is it so difficult to be nice to ourselves? Every day I think I’m getting somewhere I look in the mirror and maybe I’ve gained a little extra weight. Regardless, I start to see all the bad things, I want to focus on the good - I do - but there’s not much else I find more challenging than accepting what I see in the mirror.

I’ve been treated for body dysmorphia during therapy but I still can’t shake the self-critical eye that seems to follow me wherever I go. I want to achieve a good relationship with my body, but I mourn the figure I had in my teens - how sad is that? I’m only bloody 25 but I long for the body I had when I was 16! I mean…. Whaaaaatttt?! I was a freakin’ child, of course my body’s changed!

This is no one else’s problem apart from my own and, of course, the odd comment, “you’re not the slimmest” from older relatives packs a punch. Yeah thanks, it’s Easter and I ate a chocolate egg, rub it in! But why is it we feel so damn guilty about our own bodies, always making excuses, “I’ll be naughty and have another cake” there’s nothing naughty about it, it’s just the way we justify it to ourselves and it makes me so mad. And yes, the media has A LOT to answer for. A LOT. A HELL OF A LOT.

So, gaaaaaals. Lets start loving ourselves and not giving a stuff what other people think, because we are healthy, strong, at peace and in love. 

Who’s with me?! 🧡💛💚


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